“The more clutter you have, the easier it is to lose what truly matters—both in your space and in your life.”
— Unknown

Kept forgetting things every time?

Have you ever found yourself frantically searching for your bike keys, important certificates, or that one passport-sized photo you need right now? I know the feeling all too well. For me, it used to be a daily struggle. Mornings often started with a frantic hunt for my bike keys before heading to the office. Even worse, I’d sometimes misplace critical documents like my PAN card or license, leading to stressful situations, tedious replacements, or unnecessary purchases.

At first, I blamed everyone else—my wife, my kids. It was easier to point fingers than to examine my own habits.

The Wake-Up Call: A Series of Frustrating Losses

This habit of misplacing things went on unchecked for years until one day, I lost a digital key required for an important official transaction. The recovery process was exhausting, yet I didn’t learn my lesson. Then came the breaking point: I misplaced an important record that forced me to rewrite everything from scratch. Days later, I found it buried under a pile, but the frustration and wasted time left me questioning myself.

Why do I keep losing things?

Is this just me, or does everyone struggle with this?

When I opened up to my wife about it, she admitted she faced similar struggles—like forgetting where she kept matching scarves for her outfits, especially when we were about to leave the house. My kids weren’t much different; they frequently lost track of pencils, pens, staplers, or glue bottles.

Even in my fieldwork, I noticed a pattern. People asked to submit documents for government verifications often found themselves scrambling to locate them. To my surprise, I realized this problem wasn’t unique to me—it was universal.

The Scale of the Problem

Did you know studies reveal that two-thirds of Americans spend up to $50 annually replacing lost items? That adds up to a staggering $2.7 billion collectively. The most commonly misplaced items include TV remotes, phones, car keys, glasses, and wallets.

Here’s a bar graph visually representing the most commonly misplaced items and their percentages.

You can refer to the official report here

The data was even more alarming for businesses: locating a single misfiled document costs around $120 in labor, while recreating it takes an average of 25 hours.

You can refer to the official report here

It all boils down to one root cause—multitasking. Studies show that juggling too many tasks leads to forgetfulness and misplaced items.

Why I Kept Forgetting Things

For me, the problem stemmed from two issues:

1. Believing I wasn’t good at organizing. I had convinced myself that tidiness just wasn’t my thing.
2. Lack of systems. I had no clue what to keep, what to discard, or how to organize essentials.

My “system” back then? Tossing everything into one bag. Whenever I needed a file, I’d rummage through the entire bag muttering, “It’s in here somewhere.” Does this sound familiar?

The Turning Point: Learning to Declutter

“The question of what you want to own is actually the question of how you want to live your life.”
— Marie Kondo

Things finally changed when I stumbled upon Marie Kondo’s book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. Her approach transformed the way I viewed organization. The core principle?

“A place for everything and everything in its place.”

I started small, designating specific spots for every item and making it a habit to return things to their rightful places. It wasn’t an overnight change, but over time, it made a world of difference.

What I Gained by Decluttering

Here’s what I achieved:

• No more frantic searches. I know exactly where my keys, documents, and essentials are.
• Time and energy saved. I’ve stopped wasting hours looking for misplaced items.
• A sense of control. Organizing my belongings helped me feel more in charge of my life.

How Misplacing Things Contributes to Waste

It’s not just about frustration—misplacing items creates unnecessary waste.

• Financial Costs: Replacing lost items adds up quickly.
• Environmental Impact: Lost or damaged items lead to production of replacements, straining natural resources.

By staying organized, you’re not only helping yourself but also contributing to a sustainable lifestyle.

How You Can Overcome This Too

“A place for everything and everything in its place.”

This simple principle changed everything for me:

Assign a specific spot for each item, discard what doesn’t add value to your life, and develop the habit of returning items to their rightful places. It’s a small change that yields big results.

Of course, habits take time to build—it won’t happen in a day or two.

On busy days, you might not be able to keep everything in order, and that’s okay. However, always remember the basic principle: “A place for everything, and everything in its place.” Below is a picture of my desk. On busy days, it can be challenging to maintain order for a day or two, but I always make it a point to return to basics the next day.

I’m not an expert in decluttering, So I strongly recommend reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo. Her process is relatable, effective, and life-changing.

To go deeper, I suggest starting with The Power of Less by Leo Babauta. This book helped me focus on what truly matters—not just with physical items, but with my mental clutter too.

By decluttering, you’ll:

• Save time.
• Find things easily when you need them.
• Reduce unnecessary purchases and waste.
• Contribute to the planet by lowering your environmental impact.

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Final Thoughts

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
— Leonardo da Vinci

Take a moment to reflect: What’s the one item you lose most often? Is it your keys, your wallet, or a document? Start there. Build small habits, create an organized space, and you’ll not only find peace of mind but also make a positive impact on the planet.

You’ll thank yourself later.

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